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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My exboyfriend and I been together for almost four years. We were having arguments now and then and he decided to end the relationship and i decided to agree with it because i didn't had any choice. After our breakup i tried to talk to him but he said he didn't want to talk to me and i kept my mouth shut. After two months he emailed me and said he missed me and wanted to see me and i said ok. Later we began having problems because he was not calling me after the day he saw me. he was living two hours from the city i live. He told me the reason that he didn't call is because he was busy with work. He later was saying that he had pictures of me with other people and asked him if he can show me and he refused. After that we broke up again and i called him so we can talk and fix our problems . He says it was too late and also said that it could been fixed if it was six months ago. I beged him and asked him to talk. He came and we talked about the arguments that we had and he says he will think about it wether we are going to be together or not. and when he went away he says he wasn't satisfied by the conversation that we had. and he says its better it end it up. and he was rude and we called names. we haven't talk since may and its been almost four month. but tree weeks ago he sent me a chat message in yahoo that has no massage in it. and i ignored him and decided to delete him. is that wrong? i missed him but i don't know how to talk to him and i am not sure if he sent the empty chat message by mistake or in purpose. I need help but he told me not to call him at all. Please he lp me i really missed him because i knew from the day i met him he was the that i want to be with. Please help me what can can do. thank you
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (16 August 2011):
 Look, you have broken up and got back together so many times, this is a clear indicator that the relationship isnt working and you are not compatible. I know it will be hard to let go, but you are only young and there are plenty of other guys who will be better suited to you than this guy is.
If the Yahoo message was empty that sounds like it was a mistake, I dont think he tried to contact you to be honest. You were right to delete him, you need to cut contact with him to help you move on.
He has told you he doesnt want to speak to you, so you are just going to have to accept it is over I'm afraid and do your best to get over him and move on.
You have tried saving your relationship many times and it never worked, clearly the problems in your relationship are just too big to overcome and now he has finally had enough. Breaking up is always hard, and it is going to hurt for a long time. But be patient and in time you will start to feel better, and you will realise there are other guys out there and your life will go on.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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