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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi there,Me and my girlfriend (now my ex) split up a few months back, we were together almost 2 years. I was heartbroken for ages!We never really got on since we split... until a couple of weeks back where we started to talk properly and recently I've also been hanging with her and her mates every now and then so we do see each other a fair few times now. She has also had a new boyfriend for about a month now.I thought I'd moved on from her until we started getting on well again (talking over msn, phone and being out with mates)--slowly the feelings were coming back; I've told her how I feel about her. She wanted to see me the other day to talk over things; and although she had a boyfriend..we ended up doing things; and it was further than a kiss...The kiss felt amazing, it just felt so right. It jump started my heart. My feelings were growing back and I've explained this to her.She says there's a chance of us getting back together in the future, but she tells her current boyfriend she loves him...They get on really well and there is no sign of her getting rid of him.However the other day we were looking back on old times and we mentioned the time where we had split up and i had came round to her house begging for her back and she wasn't taking any of it...She told me she regrets this moment and wishes she could have taken me back.But now because of the circumstances she's in, i.e. having a boyfriend, there isn't a lot she can do she said.I met her earlier today to go shopping and when she was about to get onto the bus home she kissed her hand and placed her hand on my cheekI loved this girl so much and she loved me back equally; I've always had strong feelings for her, always will. I've been seeing other girls since we split, but after meeting each one a few times I found they weren't compatible at all, no girl will ever be as perfect for me as my ex; I always miss her!I'm just so confused with what's going on. What do you think is going on in her mind? And what do you suggest I do?If you could get back to me that would be great :)Thanks!Rob.
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Well simply, i agree with flower girl on this one, shes not married and she can easily break it off with her boyfriend if she really wanted to. She does seem to care about you, but maybe not as much as her current boyfriend, its like your abit on the side, dont stand for it mate, find a new girl. You could be waiting forever otherwise.xxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (30 June 2007):
 Oh love, she is not in a marriage she just has a boyfriend, so if she really wanted you she would come back to you.
I think she probably does care for you as you had a long relationship and it is hard to just let go sometimes, but i also think she is having her cake and eating it.
You can not put your life on hold for her, just because she has told you there might be a chance for you to be back together in the future.
And in my opinion you will not be able to move on from this if you continue to have contact with her.
Tell her again how you feel, but you should make it clear to her that it is all or nothing, as you are not prepared to sit on a back burner till her relationship with her now boyfriend goes pear shaped and she comes running back to you.
Take care.xx.
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