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writes:I am 15 17 years old and about 2 weeks ago me and my 18 year old boyfriend broke up because he told me that he was still in love with his ex girlfriend. When we were dating I asked him more then once "Are you still in love with your ex"? and he always said no. Out of nowhere he called me and told me this and said "this is not going to work and I am breaking up with you so bye". He never gave me a chance to say anything he just hung up. I tried to call him back but he would not pick up. I left it alone and the next day I text him and apologized to him and me and him got back together. 2 days later I text him again and was like "hey what's up" he said "talking to my ex how about you" I was like "why are you talking to her"? then he said "cause I had a question about school" then he said why do you have a problem with my ex and I said cause she threatened me and I am suppose 2 be okay with that? and he was like "you can be okay with it or not just don't talk about her. and I was like whatever we are done. I am still in love with him and he would always tell me that he loved me and that he would never hurt me but he did exactly the opposite. I don't know what to do because I still love him. Any advice?/ Thanks 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): I don't really understand why you apologized to him or why you got back together with him after he said he still loved his ex, but I guess that doesn't matter now. What matters is he lied to you and broke your heart. You need to stay away from him and give yourself some time to pick up the pieces. Why would you get back together with him again? He's still going to talk to his ex, who he admitted he's still in love with. Don't let him walk all over you like that. He's not worth your time.
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reader, pshyeahright  +, writes (5 December 2009):
Hm; move on!
The whole hanging up and giving you no time to speak; been there done that, its terrible; but life.
You broke up with him!
It was your choice...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 December 2009):
Well, you now know more about your ex in a matter of days than you ever would have in a year. He lied to you repeatedly, used you as a rebound and left your hurt. He loves his ex, and has the nerve to treat you like rubbish. Forget about him, cut all contact with him and never speak to him again, then move on and find a guy who really will love you. The more time you waste over your ex, the more you will get hurt. He's not good enough for you.
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