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writes: Have being seeing a girl for almost three months now and I'm crazy about her but its hard to interpret her feelings towards me. When we go out it always seems to be night time going to a club, pub, party etc and we usually end up having sex which is great but sometimes I feel that I'm being used!! I've asked her loads to go to the beach or go for a walk in a park we went for a drive a few times (also at night time) and well I pull the car up to a view and want to talk she's all over me before I can get a word in, I think I'm falling in love with her but I want more out of the relationship (she is just out of a four year one by the way). So my question is are my just a fuck buddy or is there more??
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2006): How long has she been out of her last relationship? It's possible that she's using you as a rebound. You should talk to her and open up about what you are feeling. See how she responds. Don't feel that you need to give in everytime to her either, maybe she thinks that all you want is sex because you hang out at night all the time. Keep asking her to do daytime activities and tell her how you feel about her. Maybe she will be relieved because she feels the same way about you, and that you truly care about her. What do you have to lose? You might actually get a real relationship out of your talk, and it's better to know now than later on down the road when you get even more attached to her. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2006): I think the girl is crazy about you. She feels so comfortable with you that she wants to make love to you all the time!!! Don't cool off and burst her bubble!! She's madly in love with you, that's why she wants to make love to you all the time....
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