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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am 21 years old and a lesbian and I am in love wit h my best friend. She is gay too, so that is not the problem, but she has a girlfriend. Last year, I told her liked her and although she said she liked me too she said she didn't want a relatonship (v bad break up before). I asked her if it was just that she did not want a relationship with me but she repeated that she just couldn't have a relationship again. After a few months like this she eventually told me that I was too important to her as a friend and didn't want anything else to happen between us. Soon after that she met another girl who she is with now (they have been together about 6 months). Me and her live together in a student house so I spend a lot of time with her, but every time she goes to her girlfriends I feel so jealous. I don't let on about any of this and we get on really well and are very close friends. But she broke up for a couple of days the other week and in re-stirred all these feelings in me. Also, I slept with another girl over the summer and she told my friend that she was jealous about it, so I don't know what to think about it. Could she have feelings for me even though she says she loves her girlfriend? Or is it just fear that I will not always be there for her? I can't help but think we may have a chance together one day and its so hard to move on. What should I do? I spend most of my time with her and other mutual friends, so it is hard meeting new people.
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