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What can I do, say, or wear to get guys to want me ?

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Question - (10 November 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

what is something you can do to get a guy to want you? i mean like really want you lol. should i wear different clothes or change how i look? what are somethings i can say to get him to know i want him?

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A male reader, Namarta United Kingdom +, writes (11 November 2010):

I agree with all of the above. You dont' do anything, except be yourself. Sooner or later (and it may be later) you will knock someone off their feet by just being you. when it happens, it will be great. Just make sure that you keep them. Be yourself.

If short skirts are you, then wear short skirts. If long dresses are you then wear long dresses. Get it?

Stop trying, and learn to just smile. Men find a smiling woman irresistable. Much better than short skirts. Now, if you can do both, then you are going to be a very busy lady.

Relax and smile. xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010):

Why do you want him to want you sexually yet you don't want to to anything with him? Nobody likes a tease, be carefull you could get a reputation.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (11 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntBasically how to be a tease? If you get him sexually revved up and don't do anything about it, you're going to have one mad guy on your hands, or a dangerous situation.

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A female reader, Sissy 1992 United States +, writes (11 November 2010):

Sissy 1992 agony auntHow about you be yourself. Why be someone your not. Its who you are that counts not who they want you to be. Just trust yourself and believe in yourself and you're there.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (11 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntWear tasteful tops that bare a little cleavage, dresses, flirty skirts..a lot of the times men are turned on by a classy woman not a trashy one. Have the confidence and intelligence to back up your flirty look. Be you, with your best foot forward.

http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/advice/tips/date-like-man

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010):

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well i just want him to want me sexually but not have the idea that i will do anything

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A female reader, amandita_triz United States +, writes (11 November 2010):

One thing i do know is that guys always go for the girl who plays hard to get . dressing trashy and being easy will definately get him to notice you , but the thing is he would only want you just to be his one night stand opposed to wanting to be with you for a long time .

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010):

Depends what you mean by "want". If you mean sex then that's pretty easy, just wear the sexist clothes you have and flirt a lot. If you mean a relationship, then it shouldn't be about what clothes you wear or how you look. It just sounds like you want this guy to fancy you. If you could give a bit more info that would help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010):

Well, you could always wear more revealing clothes. But some alot of guys dont like that. Well... at least the guys at my school dont. Or you could CASUALLY/ACCIDENTLY touch him... if your gettin what im sayin ;) haha

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