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writes:I m in a relationship with a guy...before dating him i was in love with someone else...but yet i m dating someone who i was friends with for 1 year. but i m not able to forget my past love. i want him desperately...but hes a complete casanova...there are many girls in his life. i dunno how to deal with him...he does not love me...he just wants to sleep with me...there r so many girls in his life but yet he comes to me sleep....its love versus lust. i just want him...to love me instead of lust....please help me... Reply to this Question
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (17 August 2013):
The only help anyone can give, unfortunately, is to tell you that you need to take a reality check. It’s hard loving some-one who doesn’t feel the same in return, of course it is. But you can’t make some-one feel differently, or hope that by sleeping with him often enough he’ll actually start to care about you and think of you as more than just good for sex. The initial pain and heartache of cutting him out of your life, will ultimately be much less than the hurt you will continue to experience if you don’t separate and distance yourself from him and move on.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, malvern +, writes (16 August 2013):
 You cannot make somebody love you no matter what you do. He's not the right person for you and you really need to move on and forget him. Try to find somebody else who will appreciate you.
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