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I want him so bad but he doesn't plz help :(

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Question - (20 December 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *ost annd Never found writes:

My husband just can't get into the mood any more with me we have only been married for 7 months but b-cuz of my past and me being hypersexual (AKA nympho maniac), It just feel that because of our age difference (12 yrs) he want someone closer to his age who's sexual drive has died down.

Does anyone have any advice for me to try on my husband so that we can have that sexual drive again?

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A female reader, Lost annd Never found United States +, writes (18 January 2010):

Lost annd Never found is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Lost annd Never found agony auntokay we talked and he said if i got a job he would do THE DEED but i jus got one a couple days ago and i said that he promised and now he tells me that he hates THE DEED. now i have to it by myself twice as much as i used to.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (21 December 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntwhy do some guys have get all the luck where are the girls like you in my hemisphere Well its possible you hve worn him out. a guy can only do but so much but so often. try ermm just asking him what the deal is and maybe you could turn it down a noth yourself.

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A male reader, the_phoenic United Kingdom +, writes (21 December 2009):

go and see a therapist

if he is in his thirties or his forties his sex drive wont go down unless he was suffering from a physical or pshycolgical illness

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009):

He should have thought of this before! Has he actually said he wants someone older? Maybe he is just getting tired! Could you get some specialist advice from a sexologist?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 December 2009):

Maybe just try talking to him and telling him you want it more. With men you need to be quite direct about it to be honest. But bear in mind he might just be exhausted.

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