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writes:well me and my boyfriend have been togther for 15 months, but for the past few months, four months id say, we've argied quite alot... we have also broke up a few times, but when we do, we only break up for a day, or even hours! recently everything he does irritates me easily, but the other day he broke up with me, and i cried to him down the phone for hours till he came back to me, and we got back together. but everything he does, upsets me or makes me jealous. adn we hardly have a nice conversation anymore. he treats me more like his friend than a girlfriend. he used to basically worship the ground i walked on, and now he's hardly 'romantic'. it upsets me because i want him to be like he used to be, where i always came first. i dont know if im falling out of love with him, or were going through a rough patch? its hard to tell. hes going to college soon, were he will meet more people and want to go out more. but we promised we would never go out without each other, or drink alcohol without each other. hes already broke that promise, but he didnt think it mattered as it was just 'two beers'. i dont know what to do!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 June 2012):
 It is a silly promise to make each other that you will not go out without the other one being there, or drink alcohol, that will never work. At the end of the day you both should be going out with friends as well as each other and also with him heading away to college now off course he will be out drinking with friends, it is all part of the experience and there is no point in making a promise like that.
Some times relationships just automatically come to and end, they run there course, you are both still very young, and as you are both growing up you are both going to be changing and probably moving in different directions. It is all part of growing up and experiencing different things.
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