A
female
,
anonymous
writes: im 17 and a month ago things got hectic in my life. i made the mistake of breaking up with my bf of nearly a year. i told him i wanted him back and that i still love him but he didnt giv me a straight answer. what do i do? Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2005): Like KellyO said, get out there and take you mind off this by having fun with family and friends. He needs time and space to think about it because it's likely he was deeply hurt when you broke it off with him. He's probably wondering if he does get back with you and "things get hectic" again in your life, will you just dump him again?
You can't blame the guy for wondering..right? Our loved ones aren't people we just discard when times get rough-that's pretty painful to go through. I would lay low for now and don't bug him. He knows where you stand-the balls in his court. Let's hope he forgives and forgets and lobs that ball back at you. If he doesn't, strike it up as a loss and move on. Good luck to you, dear and take care.
Hugs, Irish
A
female
reader, kellyO +, writes (23 December 2005):
Hi dearie, i think you should wait for him to respond. You have told him you love him and now he should make the next move.
Meanwhile enjoy yourself with other friends and have fun this season.
Merr xmas and happy new yr.
...............................
|