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writes:Hey, well i'm so confussed all my feelings are so mixed up and i just don't understand. I'm 14 years old and from what i know i am straight, i am attracted to men i find them sexy, i have no problem with being intimate with them, and all together i would love a relotionship with one. but recently i have been getting different feelings, i don't really understand them but it is a strange almost like impulse to be attracted to women. I am not going off boys i still view them in exactly the same light, but for some reason i am starting to like girls in some of those sense's too. Too be honest a couple of months ago the very thought for me being attracted to a women and well yanno doing things with them really grossed me out, but lately i have slowly started to like the idea and almost want to be intimate with one. The one thing is i do not desire to be in a relotionship with a women, i don't think i could ever see myself loving a women in a relotionship way, but still i do want to somthing with one. I normanally do not get along with girls at all, i am more like a majour tom boy and find hanging around with boys so much more funner and i just don't tend to find girls intresting. So why these feelings all of a sudden ? I am not to sure about my sexuality does this change me being straight ? does this make me bi-curious or bisexual or is it just a phase or even a fetish ? i am really confussed some ones opinions on this would be great thankyou x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answers, i understand its a diffucult time to do with puberty and all but i just find it strange that its come on all of a sudden.
I agree with you anon. It freaks me out aswell and i would say these feelings are quite unwanteed, i have nothing against people who like the same sex but i don't want to be gay or bi.
I have never had a boyfriend so maybe it could be somthing to do with that ? it is really confussing but like moos mum said i guess only time will tell, i havent got any friends atm either so maybe meeting some people will kind of help me discover what i am. Thanks
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (2 September 2011):
 You are pretty young so you will have lots of puberty hormones running through your body that make you feel lots of different things. Don't worry about getting a boyfriend or girlfriend yet just cruise and make friends with lots of different people. As you mature you will know which way you want to go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2011): Lately, I've been feeling the same exact way! I, like you, am a Tom boy and I don't like girls at all because they are drama.. I have the same questions but I have a boyfriend and I really like him but a woman moaning gets me "Excited" and it kinda freaks me out.
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