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I want commitment but he doesn't due to his past relationship. What should I do?

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Question - (22 June 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Theres this completely gorgeous guy I know who has a great personality and charm, (lets call him Z) who apparently likes me. He's told our mutual friend that he misses me n that he thinks im gorgeous and so on. I really like him too. There are a few problems though... like the fact he has an ex wife and a 3 yr old girl. Although I love the little girl the ex wife aint to my liking. That isn't the half of it though... he has a couple of girls on the go who don't know about eachother but he told me about them straight away and told our mutual friend he would dump them in a second to be with me. Although this is hard to believe. He always seems to cares for me he gives me his jumper when im cold he hugs me if im sad and this is only after a couple of weeks of knowing eachother too.

I want this to progress if he really wants a committment which he hasn't wanted since his wife. I don't now if I should tell him i like him so that we can go together or not. i don't know if I'm setting myself up 4 a let down please help...

PS im 18 n he's 24....

Please help! Thankyou so much

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (22 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntSit down and chat to this guy and explain that you like him but for it to go anywhere you need commitment, not to be played like with the women he's with now. I don't think that'll be setting yourself up at all.

Good luck!

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