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*ockneybabe
writes:I can not believe it after 8 months apart and him finishing it with me he calls me up out of the blue, telling me how sorry he is, since then ive had loads of calls of him, im just shocked that he has got in contact after all this time. We are meeting up soonHas anyone had this happen? what was the out come? Reply to this Question
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reader, cockneybabe +, writes (22 June 2007):
cockneybabe is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for your responses, beleive me I will be very very wary of why he has got in contact with me again, I dont think he would use me as a stop gap to be honest.
There will always be a place in my heart for him but things have got to have changed for me to give him another chance who knows that might not be why he has got in contact, until i met up with him i wont know
thanks guys x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007): Broke up with my ex for 5 months because he'd been playing around. I was so hurt, but still madly in love with him. So when he contacted me and told me how lonely he was, how much he missed me, how much he loved me and wanted to be with me, I melted. I thought that we were finally going to get back together and maybe have a commitment together. How wrong was I, when four months later he dumped me for someone else. I realise now he only used me for sex until another girl came on the scene, I was his stop-gap so to speak. So please be careful and just beware he's not using you.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (22 June 2007):
 Hey you know the old saying you don't know what you have got until it's gone.
Maybe thats what this is, my husband left me ten months ago and has just told me that he is sorry and wants to come back and i could not be happier soit all depends now how you feel about him after this time apart.
Everyone makes mistakes in life but it's how we sort them out that matters.
Go with your heart and see what happens.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Mad-Hat-Matt +, writes (22 June 2007):
well let me tell you my story. I was going out wiv my gf for 8 months then i broke up with her because i wasnt ready for a serious relationship and i wasnt sur eif i really truly loved her or not. Big Misake. We were apart for 8 months before i told her how i felt which was i was in love and i missed her so we got back together and got engaged after 3 months which at this time we were both aparently ready for commitment. How rong cud we have been we were together blissfully for 8 months before cracks started appearing and again we hav broken up. I know i lovwed her and she loved me and thats why we gave it another go we took a plunge. Thats what you need to do you need to decide how you feel and if its worth the risk of getting hurt again although i9 broke up wiv her again i know what i did was right and i now no she didnt love me bt wanted the company. In the end she did all she cd to get me bk and wen i realised i loved her i went another big mistake just decide how you feel and if you wana relationship wiv him. Hope this helps and god bless
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