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writes:I am in my late 20's with a girlfriend in her late 20's too. We have an OK relationship, though I do feel she takes me a little for granted sometimes.My advice concerns my sexual fantasies. I have this recurrent sexual fantasy to have a threesome with a couple, in the sense of both us pleasuring the wife. I have thought long and hard about WHY and it seems the excitement and taboo is what makes it desirable. I have not done this, NOR do I want to do it. Every couple of months I sign up to adult personals, send some emails, get some replies and then drop it. I am SICK of doing this and I don't want to anymore. I do NOT want to cheat on my girlfriend nor do I want to go down this path.I can be ok for months at a time before this re-surfaces. Also, I would never ever consider this for us as a couple -- so it's also hypocritical of me. My main aim of writing this is to ask for help in curbing my desire for this. I really really do not want to be like this any more. Any advice appreciated.If it helps, otherwise I am pretty normal -- no porn or other problems. Cheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): Hi love,
A fantasy that is getting out of control in your head, imagine this.... Your girl bored looking for fun on the net thinking Mmmm! ive got an ok relationship but id really like to spice things up without my fella knowing maybe i'll advertise for a couple of guys to help me do this!!!!! Ouch!!! its normal to have a fantasy but instead of letting this control you on the occations it does put back the fire into your relationship babes then you may well be saying you have a fantastic relationship, and lets face it, most men and women do have allsorts of fantasys but in reality the fantasy is always better left as just that TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXX
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reader, eddie  +, writes (23 June 2007):
 To have a fantasy is normal. To cross the line is playing with fire. If you can't continue without trying a threesome, find another guy that your wife finds hot and the three of you can have sex. Is that what you're looking for? I think not. Listen, fantasies are the minds pleasure. Enjoy them for what they are. There are no rules in a fantasy because nobody gets hurt. In real like though it's not always true.
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