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36-40,
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writes:Hi people,I have a problem getting rid of the feelings I developed for my FWB. When she met me, she came out of a 1-year relationship with someone who had her emotionally wrecked, as she says. The breakup was only a month prior. We had sex on the first date for the whole night. And the night after. Since then I'm seeing her once a week for sex and several activities in and outside.What really confuses me about this relationship, she keeps talking about how she is not ready for a commitment and needs her freedom, yet she acts like I'm her boyfriend. She always wants to cuddle, hold hands in public, in front of her friends but then she rarely calls me. I've been trying to call her less, make myself rare but this doesn't work either. What can I do? I want a relationship with this woman. Reply to this Question
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (9 August 2011):
 You've told her that you want more than FWB and she said she wasn't ready for commitment?
I would say that her not wanting to call you and not caring if you call her might not be a good sign...at least for now.
You are her salve -- her soothing medicine for her previous relationship. Her ex probably made her feel trapped, used, and many things she's trying to fight against by keeping you at arm's length.
You have two options -- to be patient, or to move on.
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