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anonymous
writes: Dear cupids, I feel so unfortunate and unwanted at times. I am a very attractive slim lady not too tall but a model structure per say. I really do want to get into a relationship but I do not want to rush things. I do not condone meeting guys through facebook as I have met a lot of them and they are just not it. Its either they want your money or sex. I have since reduced the rate at which I talk to people or let them get to know me more from social networks. But I feel its my sexual urge that drives me to wanting a relationship since I am still a virgin but I know deep down inside that I want that kind of love and affection every young lady should have in her early years even if it wouldn't work out. When I go out and I expect some guys to approach me, its more like they aren't even thinking about me and it makes me feel am cursed or something as my father has offended a lot of women who have cursed him in text messages saying his female children would go through the same or they wouldn't find men. I can almost say I haven't been in a real relationship before as they are either from facebook or through a friend or I winked at the guy or something. Most of my relationships are forced as I am always the seed bearer or starter. I want a real relationship, I want to meet someone on my own and my father doesn't allow me go out. How would I meet this guy if I don't go out as I don't want online relationship. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2012): I strongly think you are old enough to decide for yourself, Although it will hurt your dad you need to be a woman and let him know its time to take more charge in your life, Let him know he is being selfish because he is taking your happiness..As a father he should want you to be happy..right?? Show him he can trust you and he raised you right..that you respect yourself as a woman. Your virginity is important keep in mind you will never get it back just make sure you are in love and the person will value YOU. There is hope just take one step at a time you have a long while till you settle. If you do get the freedom enbrace it and be catious but youll find your way :) Good luck! Take care!
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