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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I really want to have a meaningful relationship with another girl, but i don't know really how to go about doing that. i haven't ever dated another woman before. i've looked up some chat sites and such, but they all seem to just want sex now and i really don't want to do the whole one night stand.....plse plse plse help :(
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reader, dazey +, writes (18 November 2009):
It's odd isn't it, but I think you find a lot of people that engage in homosexuality just for kicks, as if being gay is a sexual kink and not suitable fr a meaningful realtionship. It must be difficult then, to navigate through the hedonists, especially on-line. I have no useful exerience to offer you, but i would suggest joining some face to face social group thing for lesbians (or even women-only groups or spaces, you find a fair few lesbians in those) just to meet real women living these lives.You're the right sort of age to be in education so if you are your college or uni will definitely have a gay society of some sort. Whatever you do, if you're after genuine relationships definitely don't go down the online route!
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