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writes: I met my boyfriend at work he is a chef and his best mate is also a chef at the same place, im all loved up with my boyfriend but the past month or so ive felt somthing for his best mate. We all went to the pub one night when we got paid and my boyfriend didnt come but his mate did and we got on well and touched each other, and danced etc. And recently we went out again and i got his number and we have txted each other. We always flirt at work and he said he likes me, we talk about sex alot too. And it is putting me off my boyfriend cause his mate is always on my mind. I just want to carry on the flirting and he said he does.But i really like him he has a girlfriend aswell. I always think of us getting it on together. Its not that i want to be with him i just want some fun. What you think i should do! He makes me feel special when im with him . And he said im the best girl mate he has ever had. Do you think he likes me? He always winks at me, talks to me about sex and touches me in a playful way.please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2006): There may be another answer than leaving your relationship, depending on how sexually liberated you all are. The solution may be to see if your bf and his gf might be intersted in some group fun. That way you can fool around with your bfs mate while your bf gets to fool aroud with is mates gf. All are happy and satisifed. Just a kinky thought.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (14 April 2006):
 Hi
As Martini said, you have answered yourself in your own question. Which do you like more? Your boyfriend or his mate? Because if the answer is his mate then it's not fair to string your boyfriend along.
NOTE - your bfs mate said he wanted to carry on flirting, not actually go out with you or start anything with you. But if you are even going to flirt, ditch the boyfriend, it's not fair. If you don't want to ditch the boyfriend, at least be honnest with him.
Good Luck and all the best
Phoebe xxx
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (12 April 2006):
 i agree with martini for once with this one, its sick and wrong and you should not be doing that,thats emotional cheating at its best,like ill admit sure my bf has some cute looking friends and i have though to myself wow his pretty cute but i never take it any further, thats just wrong, especially when he already has a gf, the both of you should be ashamed, and you need to tell your bf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2006): All your questions have already been answered in your own comment. Ultimately, you pretty much know what you want, but one thing is for sure - break up with your 'boyfriend' first!
You know, I've been wondering about this for the longest (no, not really) time, these sort of questions get asked a trillion times a day, what makes each one so different from the others? Girl dates boy, but girl wants to fuck boy's best friend. Hmmm... This makes me so damn sick.
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