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30-35,
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writes:I was having a bf for 1 year and I really left him from only 5 days and returned to someone i was talking to before knowing my x-bf...... when i was talking to this person he was telling me about his girlfriend i feel jealous but i was smiling and telling him what to do with her cause there was a problem between them .. i really feel something towards thsi guy but i`m afaid to say cause that what he used to from girls as he is so handsome, smart, hot.. i really love him and am seeing him as a perfect person for me,and at the same time i`m afraid to realize that this love because i wanna feel care from someone and i am afraid also that his caring about me as he is seeing me like his sister.. i am very confused and i dont know what to do with him or with my x-bf as there is a way to return to him
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 At your age these are all the questions that seem to show up frequently.
They are also some of the most difficult ones to answer.
I am sure that if you just let things take the natural course you will find that everything will fall into place.
Not to say that you are immature, because I don't know you personally, but as you get older and your mind matures all these things seem to fall into their proper order. Some things become less important and yet others become more important.
When we are younger we tend to place emphasis on the wrong things. Later, though, we realize that some of the things we were most worried about are somehow not so important now. Give it some time and you will see. Doc
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reader, Entirely Unique  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Only you know whats going on in your head and heart.
You've got to do whats right for you and do what will make you happy but if you do choose this guy and go for it and for some reason doesn't return your feelings you can't then return to your ex as second best, your decision has to be 100% what you feel in your heart.
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