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Question - (18 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have known my dear friend "Larry" for over 10 years and we have a great relationship. We are both single and using this time to grow closer to God. Lately, I'll send him a simple "good morning" or "how was your day" text message and he responds "get out of my head". He goes out with friends, tells me about the good time later, and adds that it would've been more fun if I were present. "Larry" surprised me for my birthday with lots of balloons, then another gift the next day with a card attached, that said "1 day isn't enough to celebrate your birthday". I checked an email account and he had sent an e-card and wrote that by being his friend, I made him a better man. He includes my family in regular conversation, although, due to military obligations, he has never met any of them. Rarely does Larry call me by my real name, he simply calls me "beautiful".

Am I reading too far into his words/actions or is it possible that he may be looking for more than a friendship in the future?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010):

Thank you SOOO much for your opinions guys. I will definitely be honest with him as I have been feeling the same way. :)

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (18 March 2010):

TimmD agony auntHe likes you and he wants more. There is no doubt about it. NO doubt what-so-ever. It sounds like the next step is yours to make.... either reciprocate his feelings or not. Just be honest.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2010):

I think he does like you. A lot. But the only way to be sure is to talk to him. So you have to be brave and talk to him.

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