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I used to play the field. Now I want to be with my best friend! I'm scared she'll get hurt. What should I do?

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Question - (18 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am just an ordinary lad who enjoys being with different girls. I tend just to play the field but for a while I have realised there is only one girl I want to be with, unfortunatly she is also my best friend. I have a feeling she likes me too but I have a reputation for being a player. I don't know whether or not to go for this girl because I really don't want to hurt her feelings even if it is unintentional. What do you suggest I do?

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntAsk to meet up with her and tell her how you feel. If you really want to commit to her then tell her and show her that you are being genuine. It may take some time but I'm sure she will see through the player label if you are faithful with her.

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A female reader, Straight Up United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2007):

Straight Up agony auntwell i think you should tell her how you feel and make it known that you will change for her a first she may not believe you but if you constantly show her that your for real then hopefully she'll agree

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