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writes:I met this guy recently who i thought i could be good friends with. i thought he was nice at the time but when i told him i didn't want to date him after he asked me to go out with him he changed. He started saying things like he was looking for sex and was desperate for sex and really wanted to do it with me. After i said i wasn't in to that type of relationship he said he would pull me up a dark ally way, rip all my clothes off and rape me. I am a bit concerned about this as he also claimed he followed me around the town. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your responses all have given very good information and it turned out he was following me around town. So i have reported him to the police so he can be dealt with accordingly. Thank you to all once again, thank you also for the helpful link too
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reader, Starlights +, writes (30 July 2009):
 If someone is threatning you like this, you need to tell a friend close by, just in case, and also make the police aware.
The police take these claims very seriously.
Here is a local British site (as i see from your flag)
by the metropolitan police force, check it out:
http://www.met.police.uk/victim_support/stalking_advice.htm
Dont worry & Good luck!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (30 July 2009):
 I think you have cause for concern here, he seems unstable and definitely stalker potential. IF you feel threatened I would call the police and ask advice.
Here is a super good link, that I think you need to familiarize yourself with.
http://www.ehow.com/how_18084_deal-with-stalker.html
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reader, kez411 +, writes (30 July 2009):
 I think that you should definatly tell a friend or someone you trust because if you let him continue he is going to make you more paranoid and soon you will be living your life in fear because of some worthless boy... tell someone and i assure you that they will help.. you should also text him and tell him that if he says something like that again you will get him in alot of trouble... make it clear to him that he CANNOT push you about anymore and that you will no longer have anything to do with him.. he is a desperate asshole in my opinion good luck xx
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reader, Charlpop +, writes (30 July 2009):
 You shouldn't give into him, at all! Maybe try keeping an eye out for him around town the next couple of times, perhaps make it public you're going to town [put it as your Facebook status or something] and then see if he follows you.If there's no sign of him, it's probably just empty threats he's saying to cover up the rejection.If it turns out that he is actually following you, you should take a couple of friends with you everywhere for a while, but if he continues, you might have to think about taking this to the police, because, he has threatened you!Hope this helps.
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