How do I satisfy him without sex

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Question - (30 July 2009)

3 Answers - (Newest, 9 August 2009)

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey

I have been with my bf for about 4 months

we haven't had sex because i'm just not ready

and however corny this sounds i want my first time

to be special and i think he understands that

but he never seems fully satisfied with the physical side

of our relationship. He doesn't say anything because he's quite shy. I'm just a bit clueless as to how

to fully satisfy him.

Please help x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009):

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thanks for all your help, especially rifraf who brought up an important issue in our relationship. The update being that we broke up however have decided to remain friends so thanks to everyone who answered :D xx

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A male reader, DLover +, writes (30 July 2009):

Satisfy a man without sex ? You certainly cannot sexually satisfy a man without sex, but you can still work on the other aspects of your relationship, like the chemistry, how much you feel close together.

However, should that "special" first time be with him ? (I got the feeling you thought it couldn't be "special" with him). If you do not think so, stop it right now, please do not mess with his feelings.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009):

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