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writes:I have been seeing one of my friends for a while, we know what each other likes and the sex is always great! It seems lately that he gets very close to cumming very quickly and asks that i either slow down or stop what i'm doing for a moment. The other day he came within the first 10 - 15 minutes of oral play but he tried to hold back... which didn't work. he didn't want to cum so early but did... said that i just turn him on so fast.Can that be a bad thing? that he gets turned on so quickly and ends up cumming when he wasn't ready to? is it something that can get boring or am i just being paranoid... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for taking the time to read my post and having the time to type out some advice! :D Really appreciate it!
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reader, Honest Answer  +, writes (10 February 2012):
 Does he please you to orgasm? IF not, your BF needs to learn how to control himself. There are many things you both can do to prolong his orgasm. Maybe that means he pleases you before he is pleased (oral and/or finger stimilation). Or maybe you and him try different positions. When my wife is on top, I can last forever, and she seems to get off quickly since she is in control. Or a trick I learned went I was younger, masterbate a few hours before you have sex.
Bottomline is sex is something that both of you should enjoy equally.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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