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female
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30-35,
*ouLee
writes:Hi, theres this guy i havent known very long but have come to be good friends with him. He seems to have changed in the last couple of weeks n i think that he might like me more than a friend. He casually says he loves me almost every day...and he flirts more than he used to. The thing is, he's really keen and confident to get me interested in him but i've just got over my ex and even though i fancy him, am a bit scared of loving again so i try and give him the brush-off but he's still keen so i need to know...DOES he love me?
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reader, dc.ryan +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Hello,
Only you can find this out, we can't tell you whether he loves you or not - you need to follow your instincts. It does sound like he is interested in you, but you are right to consider the relationship beforehand - although it is hard to get over previous relationships, and be in fear of being hurt again - not everyone is the same, and you could be in line for a wonderful relationship.
I would talk to him about your feelings, and get him to explain his feelings for you - in person, not on the phone/text/internet as only then you can see if he really truely means what he says. Go out for lunch, and explain how you feel (tell him that you don't want to be hurt again) and perhaps get him to express himself to you - this may encourage you to enter another relationship.
Ryan
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