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writes:I been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a year and two months so far.He stays in northern cali and I stay in southern cali.We plan on him coming down when my family gets situated and theres a possibility of him moving in.Its been hard at first with us because he wasn't over his ex of 3 years that he was to marry.It was obvious as he always wanted to argue put me down and compare me to her,putting her on a pedastal.I never gave up because there was a sweet side to him and I knew he was hurting still.Finally this year he really changed no arguements and he never brings her up, he doesnt even keep in contact with her at all like before.We're really happy now but somethings been bugging me I always wondered if they hooked up when we were first together.I don't know if its crazy of me to feel like she's in the way or something.I mean he got a tattoo sleeve of my name and designs that represent me to show how much he loves me.Its just that she irritates me with the things she does or says or how we used to be because of her.Recently she texted him her new number he replied so why you telling me for?She texted all kinds of words of anger and he didn't care just texted stfu.She always thinks she could have him the way she wants him and hates it when she can't.I know and trust him its her I can't stand or trust.Am I crazy to feel the way I do?Should I be worried about her?Im confused...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2008): it seems as if he is over her. So hopefully you all last. Good luck.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (29 August 2008):
 No. I think its finally dawned on him that she thinks she can still pull his strings, but cant. Although it would of spoken more volumes if he had just ignored her.
He might of slept with her when they first split, thats not so unusual.
But is it worth worrying about if things are fine with you 2 and he might be coming to live with you soon anyway?
C xxxxx
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