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writes:my girlfriend is not talking to me for last 12 days......she asks about my well being from our common friends......she says she is fedup of living her life driven by me.........she has even stopped sending me messages ...total cutoff from me...she says she is happy with her daily routine.......should I call her and comfort her...cause now i realise that i troubled her unknowingly........ Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 12 days and no communication? That doesn't bode well for a relationship. I would give her a call or send her an e-mail trying to figure out what's up.
Maybe she can't face you to break up? Or maybe she just needs a break to sort herself out?
You will never know if you don't talk to her.
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 If you havent called her to check on her during the 12 days she probably thinks you dont give a dang about her But yeah you should try to call and comfort her but to be honest If I was her and you knew I was hurting and I hadnt heard from you I would think you didnt care . GOOD LUCK !!
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reader, here4u!  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 Dear confused. just give her some time. if she is asking your friends about you she still cares. she probably just wants some space. leave if for another 2 weeks and if still nothing, text her and ask if she is ok. ut let her reply in her own time. if she loves you she will come back to you. she just needs time. let her know what your thinking about the whole situation. she will come back to you when she is ready. good luck. Erica :)
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