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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: One of my best friends has a bf. Me and him have become pretty close friends. Latley, I've noticed that he is flirting with me (I think). I did like him somewhat before they started going out. Now that they have been going out I seem to like him more and more. Please don't tell me to get out of this situation because you should never do this to a best friend. I know that. Im just wondering what your thoughts are on this and when/and if they break up should I give me and him a chance? :/ thanks.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (27 April 2010):
If they do break up and you're interested then a good friend would ask her if its ok if you date him. There is no harm in asking or even playful flirting as friends. Some friendships revolve around flirting even if both of you are in relationships.
Check with her first otherwise I don't believe in people who say you can't date a friends ex. You have no control over who you fall for.
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