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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: I am persistent in treating women as sex objects with no feelings as such. Some would object but i have seen women like this attitude i have towards them. I see them glow when i look at them with passion and desire. Is this disrespectful? Reply to this Question
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female
reader, gberygeg  +, writes (20 March 2007):
 ok....
women do like to feel sexy and attractive....
women DO NOt like to be treated as i they ahve no feelings.
maybe they may appear to be flattered when u stare at them...they are flattered most often, but once u start wanting sometime with them...most women require verbal flirtation--- u need to make them feel as if u do in fact care about them....they do get turned on by a demonstration of passion and desire, but they also get turned on by wit and conversation....u need to treat them with respect for them to stay attracetd to you if that is what u want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): The term is misogyny, and seducers of women like Don Juan, although outwardly charming and appearing to love women, actually hold women in an inferior light and use them for sex regardless of the effect their charms have on a woman, if she is devastated because he does not reciprocate her feelings that he made her believe were there with his charms, he still feels no guilt at all, as he thinks it is his duty to scratch an itch that he believes all women have and in particular for him.
You describe yourself in these terms and you hold the narcissistic view that because women glow and respond sexually to your amorous advances that you are only igniting their desires and passions.... so since you are a persistent seducer of women, you may be what is commonly referred to as a sexual predator, you really don't like women, you only see them as objects to be used...wouldn't that attitude be beyond disrespectful and possibly border on hatred of women? Or are you just completely narcissistic with no caring for most of your fellow women human beings ....You tell us.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): Hey there!Look man both men and women have a sex drive it's natural. Like many other of us men you have a real strong interest in sex, that's not disrespectful in my opinion.What is disrespectful (in my opinion) is if you are just having sex with loads of women for the sake of it, yes if a women accepts to have sex with you, they too shall have passion for your feisty feelings.I recommend that you find a partner who you love not just for her looks and because you want to have sex with her, but for her love and feelings towards you. Then you can enjoy one loyal partner. If you still have a sex drive then I recommend you just masturbate more to illiminate these feusty feelings, otherwise you could end up how you are now.Good Luck!Regards
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