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writes:I am totally lost, i dont like talking to anyone, i mean everybody. i like to stay quiet and watch a movie or keep myself busy. i have a nice job, i have beautiful family, i have my second baby due soon.I am almost complete in my life, (but i am not happy, somehow i feel like eating myself in my head). Last year i lost my job, i was job less for 3 months, i got this job that i am currently with and since then i am very changed who just like to die and not care about no-one else.Family wise i hate my parents for the way they brought me up,(but i still talk to them with cold heart) i dont talk to one of my brothers who i was very close with for 25 years. We dont talk because his wife once abused me for being too close to my brother, my brother stood there like a sitting duck and didnt say nothing to her.I dono what i am going through please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Zabih +, writes (15 July 2009):
Zabih is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your answers, plesse keep them coming...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): hi im christina..
u seem like ur going thru cronic depression..
usually it does start from family like ur parents, u hate them and im sure theres a reason for that..
also losing contact with a brother that u were close with can take a toll on ur life..it changes everything and im sure u werent like this ur whole life..i say u try to look back as far as u can to where this whole out-look happend..maybe u can then find some answers
my advice to help solve most of it is to talk to ur parents no matter how much u hate them they are there.[forgive me if i juss dont understand the reason u hate ur parents]..talk to ur brother be stern and tell him ur feelings and wat u felt that day when he did nothing..releasing some of ur agony should help relieve some pain..going to the movies WITH ur family might not be soo bad..u kno or even having a few parties with friends or even juss ur family should make u feel needed and loved..be happy that u have a wonderful family and a new baby on the way..be excited =] u made this thing..change ur outlook on the world and try to see things differently than now
i wish u the best =]
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reader, Sarah174 +, writes (15 July 2009):
You're deppressed. You should see a psychiatrist soon becuase it can effect everyone around you. Espescially with a new baby on the way. He's going to need a lot of love and if you can't give it to him, he can get sick.
-Sarah
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