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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 4 months we have a 6 month old baby. He cheated on me and got that girl pregnant. When I found out he cried and told me he was sorry that he messed up. I took him back but now I'm not sure if that was a good idea. I love him with all my heart but everytime I see him I imagine him with her. What should I do?
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reader, kwleee  +, writes (11 March 2010):
i think you should talk to him about it and see if he changes but if he doesnt change after that just tell him if he doesnt pull himself together you will leave him
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (11 March 2010):
 trust is a hard thing to regain you need to work out in your head whether or not you can work past thing and not bring it up if you agree to forgive someone you cant bring it up when your arguing.see how things go and if your not happy and feel you cant forgive him then theres no point continuing with the relationship
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reader, DiamondsAndPearls +, writes (11 March 2010):
 I think it depends on you. You eiether have to draw a line in the sand and really get over it or end your relationship. If you take someone back and say that you accept their appology then you really need to put it to bed and move on . You cannot live in the past. However if you don't trust him and can't see yourself ever trusting him i reccomned that you end it now. You can still both be great parents to your child without being together, and being in a realtionship that makes you unhappy is not somthing you want your daughter to see as normal. Spend time thinking about what you really want. Don't feel you have to stay with him because you took him back. But make sure you choose whats right for your child and you. Hope this helps.
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