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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i really liked this guy and i thought he liked me. i made a stupid mistake and told someone else i didnt like him..and she told him. then a while after that i told him that i liked him over the internet. he didnt reply and didnt talk to me for months. we talk every now and again but i dont think he likes me anymore. when he's around me he acts as if he likes me but im not sure. Help!
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (9 October 2007):
Hopefully you've learned that honesty pays and manipulation can go arwy.
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reader, rcn +, writes (8 October 2007):
 Even though you talk now, have you addressed the issue of not liking him. It's important that is cleared up between the both of you. Apologize for your remark. Let him know you were out of line for saying it.
Peer pressure is a crazy thing. You need to choose, leader or follower. I'm not talking about leading the school or a large group, but leading yourself. Being in tough with who you are, so what others think will be less relevant. You start this by following your goals and what you want to achieve, not worrying about what the reaction of others will be. People like you for who you are, not because you do what they do.
Like telling your friend you didn't like him. Your leader response would have been "i like him, it's OK to like him, and what you think about my liking him is not important."
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