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reader, deirdre  +, writes (24 March 2013):
you should know what to do already..... dump him and find someone worthy of you. he bought you nothing but EXPECTS a gift? come on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2013): Dump the fool and regain your dignity or start breaking into houses hoping to steal one. Don't do the latter or course.
I find it strange you even need to ask OP, I mean is there any reason at all why he should get away with treating you like this? Any good reason at all? I don't see any. I'd tell him he can shove his ipad up his ass and find another fool to go out with.
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reader, MsSadie  +, writes (23 March 2013):
 Don't buy him the iPad, don't continue to reach out to him, and certainly don't feel guilty about either of those things.Maybe send a pre-birthday text to feel out if he's decided to start acting like a man again. If he hasn't, you know where you stand and I advise you to move on from this guy for good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2013): What kind of talk is this? Tell him to get off his ass and get a part time job so he can buy his own Ipad. Your not his beast of burden. If he stopped talking to you that is good and move on. You sound like a nice person you wont have any problem finding a man that can really appreciate a woman like yourself.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 March 2013):
 Stop calling him and CERTAINLY DO NOT buy him an IPad, why on Earth should YOU buy him this? If he never bought you ANYTHING how is that fair for him to "demand" you buy him this or that?
Obviously he doesn't love you, he was just using you.
Dump his dumbass!
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reader, laure  +, writes (23 March 2013):
 hehe he sounds like a 10year old,very immature!!!i believe you need a man in your life and not some silly ass kid and the fact that he said you're annoying him is enough!just stop contacting him and focus on finding someone smart the least ! he's leaving you for an ipad?!!in life there are more serious issues and thats a proof for you that he wont be around when you two will face some major problems!he'll simply walk away..
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reader, LivingWithBadDecisions  +, writes (23 March 2013):
 What should I do now
ignore him. if he doesnt call you in a week without you getting in touch with him then you walk away
hes sponging and doesnt give a crap about what you want. hes throwing a tantrum and you shouldnt stand for it.
if you decide to stay with him never buy him expensive things like gadgets becuse he wont truly appreciate(apreciate?) them. Only bother to get him something if he will get you something for your birthday/christmas.
Cooper
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 March 2013):
 I'd stop calling and trying to get him to talk to me.
He wanted an ipad, you said no. either he's sulking like a child (which means he's not mature enough for a relationship) or he was with you for the things you would buy for him and do for him (in which case he's not prize and you should leave anyway)
so what to do... do nothing... ignore him... walk away
when he contacts you start with 'I'm NOT buying you an ipad for your birthday, in six months or for Christmas. I will probably never buy you an ipad. In fact, from now on I'm going to buy you exactly what you always buy me."
see what he says or does... after 3 years together and he's never bought you anything, I'm sensing the end is near.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 March 2013):
 Tell him to go...iPad off and find yourself someone who is less blatantly a moocher .
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reader, NORA B +, writes (23 March 2013):
Please remember its the thought that counts in the giving of any gift NOT THE PRICE.Your boyfriend is very selfish and mean to expect you to buy him an iPAD.First of all your boyfriend maybe be a user.As he seems to have lost interest in you with great RESPECT TO YOU.There is no way that you should consider buying him a iPad in 6 months OR call him again.It might be a good idea to let him go and meet someone that cares for you.Best Wishes Nora B.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2013):
Hard one that is... Lets see doesn't talk to you because you won't buy him an iPad? Hmm well I would stop texting calling him, he a donkey add and save up and buy myself something nice instead .. You don't need someone who will ignore you just because your financial not able to buy them a big gift for their bday . I mean who needs people like that ? I don't ! And I bet neither do you!!
Keep walking, he not worth your time sweetie..
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2013): its simple--stop calling him...hes a loser!
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