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I told my bf how I feel, he freaked out

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Question - (22 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 May 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid

My bf of 2 years lately is keep on taking me for granted, spending most of the time with his friends, not spending enough time with me.

Even if i am busy with something i used to pick up his call all the time, if he calls at all, he always comes first. I told him that and asked him why he is not doing the same thing. Now he got freaked out i believe, since he started totally avoiding me, not picking up even one of my calls, not returning any of the texts.

Please help me, did i freak him out? Do i sound like overally attached? Is he gonna break up with me?

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A female reader, ihopeihelped United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2011):

ihopeihelped agony auntlook lovely maybe this boy/man is not worth your time

if he has become distance then it looks like he is making a sign

talk to him tell him you think he is becoming to distance and if he denies it then tell him straight and if he still doesn't listen leave him , he is not worth it at first it might hurt - it still does for me after 4 months with my ex and yeah you might rush into things that you know wont work to try to reveal the pain but this will make it worse if you two do split try to stay friends and if you cant then just stay single for a bit maybe this will help you both x

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A male reader, Welsh Uncle Dave United Kingdom +, writes (22 May 2011):

I don't think it matters if you freaked him out or not, it seems clear there's only one of you in your relationship and that's you.

Save some face and dump him before he dumps you.

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