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anonymous
writes:here it goes.. about a month ago i told the guy i really like to leave me alone and that i'm done with him. Why? because he was all over his ex and still trying to hang out and kiss me.. all that good stuff. his friend put him on the phone and as soon as he said my name i hung up. i'm trying to move on completely. however, last night his friend told him i was at sonic. instead of pulling up by his friend who was on the completely other side, he pulled right next to me. he saw me with my guy friend then left. then today, he brought in this one girl (who he knows i dont like) to my work. he knew i was working. now why did he do this after i told him to leave me alone? i just dont get it. he keeps showing up wherever i;m at. yes i miss him, but i can't talk to him, not after the way things were.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 June 2010):
Well now he realizes that he made a mistake. But DON'T fall for it all again. Cutting this guy out was the best thing you could have done. He is a grade A moron. He has no idea about how to impress a woman, instead thinking that by making you jealous you'll suddenly be hurt. And you just know that the moment you give in, he'll goo back to treating you like dirt. You're doing the right thing, so stay strong and continue to ignore him.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (6 June 2010):
 You're absolutely right. You are one of the smart ones - he is not for you. His greatest love is himself, and to stroke his ego, he's turned up the charm for you. You become desirable when you are unobtainable. As soon as you give in to him, he'll treat you like dirt again. Ignore his games and find someone who has actually grown up.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 He's realised what he's missed out on and now he's deperately trying to impress you. You now have to decide to completely ignore him until he gives up or to give him another chance and date him.
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