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*leur22
writes:I was having sex with a guy, we both have partners and have not seen each other for 2 years now, but I told him that "I was falling in love with him" and he said "you didnt have to tell me that" the thing is I dont know what he meant, instead of me asking what he meant by it, I just assumed that he didnt want to know. This is not the reason we stopped contact, the reason we stopped contact is because it was getting harder to meet as we live 2 hours away from each other.Can anyone help?Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, fleur22 +, writes (3 October 2007):
fleur22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am actually telling the whole story and just because we havnt had contact for 2 years dosent make any difference, infact he did contact me 2 months ago but it was only a how are you, you are looking well etc because I am weary of online users and there is a lot of people know my situation who I dont speak to now.
We dont have new partners same partners we both had back then and I must say I am in love with him, think about him 24/7
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): somehow I think you are still holding a torch for this old flame. Why else would you even be thinking it?As for you paraphrasing : "you didnt have to tell me that" - It is brutally clear what that means. He valued the sex but a relationship was never on the cards, what else could he possibly mean by that. You both had partners, I just get the feeling you are not telling us the whole story.
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (2 October 2007):
 I dont mean to be mean, but you havent had contact with this guy in 2 years and you are worried about what he meant back then NOW? What does it really matter? The two of you have moved on and have new partners. What he said or meant 2 years ago hardly has any bearing on today. Why are you so concerned?
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