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writes: I'm in of need help.A month ago i asked out a girl who i liked for ages. I have known her for about 5 years and we are both in 1 class together. We are both 15 and I haven't liked her for all the 5 years but when i told her why i liked her ( i said she was beutiful and caring and other stuff like that and i really meant it)she said it meant a lot to her and she agreed to let me flirt with her more and because it was late we said night to each other. That was a month ago and i haven't talked to her since (she was on holiday for 2 weeks though.) her friends said i should ask her out again but mine and the person i fancies friends stand in a circle with me and the girl in the middle, i give her a rose and ask her out because she likes people who are romantic. Is that a good idea cause i have never heard anthing like that before? Anyway why can't i talk to her anymore? why won't she talk to me? i want to talk to her but i can't somthing is holding me back but i don't no what please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2005): The circle idea might be a bit pressurising and will give her no choice but to say yes. Give her time to think and ask her out when it is just you and her, although the circle idea is a beautiful idea, go for it and Good Luck! xx
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reader, alison +, writes (30 May 2005):
Take her friends advice because no one will know her like her friends. If you're scared of her saying no then ask her in private. She might be too shy to talk to you so if you don't make a move, you might lose her.good luckxx
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reader, schlottjl  +, writes (30 May 2005):
 I agree with kt. Girls are attracted to guys who are not too needy. Makes us feel you are not strong and that no one else will have you so you are desperate. I hate to say this, but a little game is in order. Let it be known that you were interested and that she is okay but didn't seem too into you. Not to her though. Then play it like while she is beautiful, she is not the only beautiful girl and that you have some other girls in mind that seem into you that you will ask out if she does not like you. Don't go over the top but then the next time you see her or call, be slightly aloof but as if you will give it one last shot to make sure you didn't misread her . If she sees it as a last attempt because you have other fish to ask out, she will more likely flirt to show you your in. If she offers to help get the other girls for you you know your out and say you don't need it, but will call for help if they are coming on too strong. Works for my son and now the phone is off the hook with either desperate girls or his friends wanting advice on attraction. Just always be respectful of other peoples feelings and let the game end after intentions are known. Girls only like romance from boys they like. They make fun of the others.
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reader, valleygirl +, writes (30 May 2005):
Girls love flowers. Go ahead, use a flower. Well she will never talk to you first cause girls expect boys to talk first. You made your first move. Go ahead, do your second move using a rose, maybe a present to make it sweeter. Believe me, I'm a girl and I'm waiting for my lover to ask me out the second time... Ask her out plz or else you will be a loser.
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reader, kt  +, writes (29 May 2005):
 Even if she seems to be confident, she might be a bit shy when it comes to love, which might mean she likes you too though. But don't come on too strong to her. The best thing too do is to talk to her best friends because they know her better, or get one of your friends to do it.
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