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writes: well, i cheated on my bf while i was at camp. it was for the last week, and i deffently dont have feelings for this guy anymore. me and my bf almost never get to see each other durring the summer, and its hard on me because i love him soo much. so while i was at camp, durring the last week, this really nice guy (who sorta reminds me of my bf) asked me out and i said yes.at first im like "what happens at camp stays at camp" and "i just wont tell my bf about this, wut he doesnt know wont hurt him". but as me and this guy started going out, sumthing was missing! after our first kiss (peck) i felt nothing, it was a blank kiss, so i figured that i dont have strong feelings for this guy, so my cheating isent soo bad. at first i dident care about frenching and kissing this guy, but by the end of camp, i dident want to, and it wasent enjoyable for me! i only wanted a bf for the cuddling (wich i missed soo much from my bf)......my friend told me that i should probably tell him....and she was right! i cryed sooo much after that, i was always sad cause i shouldent have cheated on my bf! and everyday im worried about the day that he comes back from camp, and the day i need to tell him that i cheated.i love him soo much and i dont want to loose him!how could i break it too him lightly, and to show him that i still love him, and i always did, and i never stoped?pls help!
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (18 August 2006):
 Better yet, write it down. Pretty much everything you said now. That way he'll be able to get the whole thing without the chance that he'll freak out and not let you finish properly.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 That's good advice from the other aunts. Just make sure to remember how you feel now, so that if you are ever tempted again in the future, you'll know what the consequences can be. We all have to learn stuff in life, the trick is to try to not need too many lessons.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 There is no light way to break someone's heart and if he loves you like you love him than it will break his heart. But if you want to feel that the way you tell him is light or efficient enough to keep dating you, then tell him how you would want him to tell you. Think of it like this. What if the shoe was on the other foot and he was the one who cheated on you and approach it that way. I know how it feels to be the one who cheated and all the anguish you feel. Think to yourself how you feel now and multiply that by three and thats how he will feel but I do think you should tell him. Good Luck.
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