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writes: Ever since the first year of high school, I always thought I hated this guy in my year, and he hated me. We always used to disrupt the class by having full-blown arguments with each other, and we used to insult each other too. I once told him that he needed to sort his life out, as he smokes pot and gets drunk regularly. But sometimes, he'll sing love songs to me in front of the class, or pretend to kiss me, so I don't know where am I with him. My friends said that deep down, they think I like him a lot, and that he likes me, but what do you think???
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reader, NordicBeauty +, writes (9 July 2005):
Irish 49 said it all....I agree !
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2005): What an odd way to show one's feelings to each other? You are both in high school not elementary school. If he likes you, can he not just pick up a phone and call you for a date? I do think you are intriqued with him but only because he's unlike other boys..he's a challenge to you. But let's be sensible here. Ask yourself? If he's ready to argue with you so easily, he's drinking and doing drugs...why would you want to date a guy like that? He sounds quite insecure and he is TROUBLED. I'm sure there are mature, decent boys to date, someone who has respect for himself & doesn't do drugs. A boy who respects you. But if you're attracted to that kind of guy...then be prepared for a immature boyfriend who isn't honest with his feelings, plays mindgames and does drugs. I think you know...what I know. You are so much more worthy of someone better than this. Remember actions speak louder than words and his actions are...well.. immature. But if you isist on liking him..make sure he cleans up his act before you even consider dating him. Good luck.
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