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anonymous
writes:I am 16 years of age... my mum and dad found out I have been writing to a lad in young offenders prison. I was going out with him while he was out, but my mum and dad sat me down and said they ask one thing of me, that is to stay away from him. But I carried on meeting him and lying about it. They hate the lad because they have heard stuff about him. They also know I slept with him. I have had my phone taken from me so he can not call me. He does not know what is happening at home. What shall I do? I can't leave the lad because I think I love him! x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): to be honest with you,your better off dumping him i was your age once and found myself in the same position except i was pregnant.i decided to go with my own instincts and give him a chance to prove good and for the sake of our child and the letters i was receiving telling me how much he loved me and how i was the best thing in his life made me want this guy more than anything and his words made me fall hook,line and sinker,i waited for him to be released and the first 2 days were great and then he started to hang with his mates,leaving me stuck at home with the baby and as the days wore on i saw less and less of him until i happened again(prison) and once again he started his letters but this time i didnt fall for it,i realise he only wanted me when he had nobody else and i dumped him,so glad i did as since me he has been back in prison 5 times and i dont want to be known as a prisoners girlfriend because thats all you will ever be trust me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): He is in prison as a young offender? That's bad. You don't need to get involved with a criminal. There is no future in it, and he might try to involve you in his way of life. In other words, he would be a bad influence on you. You could end up doing drink and drugs, if not worse.
Please, be sensible and recognize that your parents have your best interests at heart!
They want your happiness and well-being. You say you THINK you love him? Well, I strongly recommend you think again!
In time you will meet a nice lad who will be honest, caring and fun to be with.
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