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writes:i live in a little village not many single women everybody has someone either wife or girlfriend. i've tryed online dating. i see everybody kissing each other or holding hands. i'm getting frustrated and lonely.with no woman to call my own. not one woman in my little town will come near me i know i'm not the most attractive man in my little town. i thought i would be married by now and have children. i would like some advice please thank you for any help you can me
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reader, amcashes  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 I know the feeling of being alone. This is going to sound mean and i dont mean for it to but you need to make sure that you dont stink. People can stink and not know it. Other than that I dont know. Keep your chin up!!!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 I have a few suggestions...
First, talk to your closest friends and ask them for an honest opinion of the way you come across. If no woman in your small town will not even come close to you, could it be because you act in a creepy or anti-social way that makes the women wary of you for some reason?
Next, are you open to moving away from your small town and moving to a new city? Sometimes, staying in the same place means that no matter how much you change and mature, the people around you will only see you for the way you used to be. This can be a barrier to finding love.
Lastly, if you have not considered an education, maybe going to school in another town, even if it is part time, might be your chance to not only find a new love interest, but also, to start a new direction in your life.
Finally, build a social circle network and tell EVERYONE you know that you would like to meet a girl for a serious relationship. Real friends will either introduce you to single women, or tell you exactly why they would not. Either way you get to meet women, or information.
-Frank Kermit
Author, How to Build a Social Circle Network
www.franktalks.com/social
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