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I thought I was in, she didn't!

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Question - (12 October 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2007)
A male Zambia age 41-50, *hlez83 writes:

I've been going out with this girl for 6 months.We recently had our 1st sex.Da 1st tym i's 2 nervous and pulled out too quickly.2nd time i lost my erection while trying to penetrate.3rd i kept my erection but after asking how it was,was told to penetrate next time.I's sure i penetrated her.

Who between us might have a problem?

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A male reader, chlez83 Zambia +, writes (12 October 2007):

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Thanx guys. I's beginnin 2 think my tool's too small. I think i wnt start losin any sleep over it coz i kno wit practice this'll b history. Atleast i kno i'm normal!

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (12 October 2007):

You don't have a problem. Part of the joy of sex is in the learning and doing. After awhile you'll look back on this and smile.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007):

Happens to lots of people - could be that she was really turned on (very wet) and these moments can be very slippery, so you probably wasn't in properly. Having said that, normally a woman should guide you in if you're heading the wrong way...so I'm surprised at her reaction. Not very nice of her, but then as you haven't been sleeping together for very long, these things can take a little time to work themselves out. Put yourself in from behind the next time, you can see what you're doing and there won't be any problems if she is on all fours (hope my mum never reads this!!) XX

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007):

Is it in yet? You are? Then could you wave it about a bit please?

Next time you try this, could I suggest that you take a look, just to be sure? Start off with her on her back and you kneeling. You should get a pretty good view of what's going on from there.

Phil

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (12 October 2007):

Ponungalungb agony auntUnless you're hung like a 2 year old and/or she's as big as a mayonaise jar, it sound's like you 2 need to be communicating a little more. Is it in yet? That's funny stuff.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (12 October 2007):

rcn agony auntI wouldn't worry about any problem. Don't place blame. If you argue about being in or not, you can just imagine when real problems come along how intense the arguing will be.

I had a friend that his first time he actually did the running and jump, like a superman leap, on top of her and yelled, "is it in yet." I wouldn't loose any sleep over it.

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