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I thought I wanted to be a teen mom but I realised I was wrong!

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Article - (20 February 2009) 0 Comments - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi

this is to all those teens out there who want to be a mam or a dad in that case, this is written by a 14 year old who was 13 when was going through all this.

i really wanted a baby at 13 and me and my bf who was 16 i got pregnant and went i took the pregnancy test i was in denial i took 4 more after that all together i took 5. all went blue. it was then i realised i didnt want one, i kept it a secret for 2 weeks with only my bf and best mate knowing and one day my mam came and sat on my bed

and i burst into tears and told her, and evan though i thought i wanted one you realy don't and you wont belive this you just want someone who is yours forever to give you uncondional love, my mam was deply dissapointed in me and i realised she didnt want it so i got rid of it for me and my mam; my bf broke up with me because i didn't keep it but from my point of view it was my body and i have friends who are 14 and because they are young and not developed they've teared down below in giving birth and it is meant to be realy painful..i realise now that i did not need a baby to make my happy and a concentration on my studies has brought me and my mother closer and if i had the baby i would have missed out on so much, my own mum spending time with her, my mates the fun of being a teen, also if i had it i would have had no money for it i'm talkin more then a few thousand a year...also when i'm older i'm setting a bad example to them..i'm not saying teen mams are wrong but i wasnt ready to grow up that fast...

leave comments and i will anser and write back

thankyou and make the write choice

xxx

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