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anonymous
writes:hey, me and my ex bf split up about 3 weeks ago, although i wasnt full over him i was getting there, but then today he came to pick up some of his things, as he finished me over text, we was talking about it, as i just wanted to know answers. he then said we could never get back and even though i already know this my heart sunk. as soon as i seen him all my feelings came rushing back and i just felt like grabing him and crying. he then told me he was moving on and went out and met a few girls he liked.i thought i could deal with all this but knowing now he is moving on and im not is killing me i just feel like locking myself away and crying. please help me i love him but he doesnt love me no more
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2011): I agree. Cut off completely and find things to occupy yourself so you don't get time to think about him. You still will of course, but less and less. He couldn't have been right for you so I expect someone else will be. Don't rush into anything new till you have healed though.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (26 May 2011):
 3 weeks is nothing, the wound is still fresh, give yourself time. You'd move on much faster if you'd cut contacts. Do not call him, do not talk to him, do not ask info about his private life, as you have seen, that makes it worse. If you bump into him by chance, say "hi" and keep walking.Avoid for a while going places where you are sure he is gonna be. Start pretending he does not exist .
It may sound extreme to you, but it's the only thing that can speed up your healing process.
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