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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey. Right so Friday night, I went to a party and I ended up spending pretty much the whole night with the guy I like. We don’t tend to speak much in person but a lot on Facebook. We were both pissed and he came to sit by me for most of the time I was there.He was constantly talking to me and we were messing about. He was doing stuff like taking photos of me, looking at my phone and telling me to poke him, hit him, etc. Basically things that would involve me getting closer to him or having to touch him and stuff, but nothing very physical. He bought me drinks and looked after me when I started to feel ill. He kept on asking if I was ok and stuff.At college I keep on catching his eye. Plus he seems to be around me a lot of the time. He’s normally quiet-ish but last night he was a lot more confident because of the alcohol.Anyway, when I was leaving I saw him cuddling this other girl he’s friends with. He was snuggling into her and had his arms around her. I was really gutted because at the time it looked as if there was something going on between them. I didn’t realize they were that close. I know he was drunk but every time I saw him with her he had his arm around her or something. I don’t know what happened after I left and I haven’t spoken to him since. What do you guys make of this? I’d really like some help. I don’t know what to think. I may ask him if he pulled this girl next time we speak. Please help...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 February 2010):
He was drunk and was probably over quite a few girls. If he really likes you he can come to you when he's sober.
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reader, ConfusedBadly +, writes (14 February 2010):
im in the same sort of the situation except we had to keep away from each otherwise it look obvious that we had been hanging out without no one knowing but he kissed me and hasnt mentioned it since.
but in your case why no ask him if he likes you?
good luck
xx
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (14 February 2010):
Sounds like he was just drunk. When I get drunk I get very flirty. If he talks to you a lot on facebook he may like you... but then again he may talk to a lot of girls on facebook. Too hard to tell based on just this information.
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