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writes:My name is blair and i am a 13 year old male. Starting about 2 to 3 weeks ago ive been having thoughts of liking guys looks. Ive always liked girls and theyve always turned me on . Now that im worried that im might be gay for some reason girls arent turning me on as much. And sometimes im getting ercetions from looking at guys. Before this i was always turned on by girls. Since i had the thought oh hes good loking ive almost been losing my interst in girls and i dont know what to do. Im sure im straight and i would never want to be gay!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist +, writes (5 February 2010):
 Its perfectly normal. You would be surprised how many guys post a quetion similar to this. It does not mean that your gay at all. You could be checking out guys because your wondering what it would be like to be someone else and think about the girls that they get. I check out guys for the body type i would like to have or the style that I know that I can't pull off. Girls do the same thing with other girls, the way we are brought up in the culture is to compare are selves to others so don't worry about it.
If you get comfortable with it and you're hanging out with some girls make a comment about how cute that guy is when you know its what they are thinking. They will probably be shocked but like it.
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