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I think we're both afraid of going all the way.

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Question - (14 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *heesyblond writes:

My fiancee and i only do sexual stuff when we are alone and thats all and dont get me wrong i like it but thats all we ever do and now we dont get any alone time together so that cant happen and im kinda happy it wont but also sad we wont be able too. we havent gone all the way yet and we say we wont until we are married ( it will be a while before we are because his 15 and im 16 and our 'rents dont know we are engaged) but everytime we are alone and do things then we get really close to "home plate" and we stop and i freak when we get close and he worries about me and im afraid im going to pus him away when i freak out and when i do stuff to him i get over heated and get really dizzy and he gets scared but he doesnt want me to not do it just want me to be careful and i dont know what to do about all this. I know its alot of questions but i need some answers

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (14 October 2007):

You are not ready for sex, Back off the foreplay for awhile.

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A female reader, cheesyblond United States +, writes (14 October 2007):

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I meant that im afraid to push him away

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