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Does he love me, or is he neglecting me?

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Question - (14 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *lueEyes89 writes:

Well, I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months now, and it hasnt always been the best, as we are both the eldest child, therefor always think we are right, leading to quite a few arguments, these are usually resolvedn shortly after, and i don't want to break up with him. I do really love him, and with a difficult home life like to spend alot of time with him, we both still live with our parents, and part of his parents rules are for me to stay 4 nights a week, which is fine by me, but when i stay round all he ever wants to do is play his games (xbox 360) i dont mind doing my own thing for a while but it does get tiring, so i ask him just to be with me, and he says he wants time alone and how i see him to much? Do i? I dont want to keep nagging him, i just want to see him, but he wants to play games with his sister 'like they used to'. This makes me feel neglected and rejected and unwanted? Should i feel this? Do i ask to see him to much? Or are his games and alone taking priority where i should?

Please help, as i have no-one to talk to.

Thank you

Hannah

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2007):

dapone 1 agony aunthi blue eyes 89

the position that you are in at this time is hopeless, you should be with some one who wants to be with you, to be honest if some one put there xbot, before me and my feelings, i would be out of there like a shot, your relationship is going nowhere so maybe it is time to move on and find some one who does not have an xbot, therefore would spend more time spoiling and wooing you.

good luck

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (14 October 2007):

Find a new bf, your's is addicted to video games. Don't play second fiddle to video image. Or, you could try to negotiate a time split with him. Part you, part video game.

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