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writes:I'm 34 and I dated a 19 year old last year. She came to the US as a foreign exchange student. I got to know her when she first came over, but didn't persue anything till a few years later. Basically my question is, I feel used. I feel she came over to have fun and maybe she came over to be back with a friend. I feel like a really crappy 3rd wheel. I'm a guy, and I feel she may be experimenting with girls. I just don't know what to do about this. It is very injurious to my self esteem. She is possibly experimenting. How do I handle this?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 June 2015):
 You tell her bye bye ....
My guess is she did USE you as a way to come back to the US, she doesn't however see you as a potential date or BF. YOU on the other hand seem to think that because she came to the US she somehow owes you sex? An your ego got hurt because she rather have sex with a woman?
If she rather BE with that girl (and IF she is staying with you) ask her to leave, you are NOT obligated to give her a roof over her head while staying.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (15 June 2015):
 You turn, walk away, and say to yourself: "well, that was interesting.. but not enough so as to make me continue questioning myself, and whether or not there ever WAS "anything there"......"
Good luck....
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