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writes:So me and my boyfriend J. have been together for almost one year we have a 11 month old boy to gether and we have been friends for a couple of years we where "friends with benefits" for a little over a year and when our son was about 3 months old we decided to give it a try. For the most part we have a good relationship and I really love the guy..We have such a good friendship. I know his last girlfriend and I know that he Cheated on her and lied about it tell he was served with child support papers. She also told me that he would communicate with his X wife over the internet (they don't have any children together) and she found out that they where having sexual conversations. She told me about some of the Emails. I have asked him if he talks to her and he told me no. Than a few months ago he told me that she found his brother over myspace and he never got a hold of her..Than latley his story changed and that she has been trying to IM him but he does not reply..When I looked at his yahoo she was on his contact list.Does this mean he is cheating on me? She lives in another state and if he would lie about something so small..
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reader, didda123  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 What a tangled web! I think your boyfriend seems to have a lot going on in his life i don't think he is being completely honest with you he doesn't appear to have settled down at all he seems to be a bit of a player and this is causing you a great deal of stress.I know you have a child together but i think you need to re-evaluate your life now, you need to sit him down and discuss everything tell him how you are feeling very stressed out with the possibility that your relationship is not working and he is making you very insecure with the way he is carrying on.You have a child together so it is worth working out but it is never right to stay in a relationship just because of the children if there is nothing worth saving only you know this for sure.I hope things can be worked out in the near future but he needs to be honest with you. Good luck x
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